relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"HELP!!!!!!"
 
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE HAS JUST CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE.(MY 1ST LOVE).I'VE MOVED ON WITH SOMEONE ELSE BUT I REALLY WANT TO BE WITH MY 1ST LOVE. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
 
posted by STEPHANIE on 1/4/2008 @10:49:53 PM •
 
uh oh. sounds like you really aren't into your current love... whether you get back with your first one or not, you may want to reconsider your current relationship...
 
posted by james on 1/5/2008
 
If you think your first likes you back and you'd rather be with them than the person you're with currently, then maybe take a break from the current and just think about things. I've found myself in the worst situations when I just didn't take the time to think.

Don't rush into a new relationship straight after one, I tell you now, it is a horrible thing to do. It can lead to many different problems, I was abused verbally because I just moved on to the next available person after a guy.

Think about it. If you're not happy with what you have, don't keep someone believing when there's nothing there. But think about it, for at least a week, and think deeply about it, make sure it's what you want to do. Take some time out to regather your thoughts. Trust me, it's worth it.

Hope it helps.
 
posted by Cassie-annabel on 1/10/2008
 


 
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