relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"Should i dump hm?"
 
I met this guy at my friend's wedding. he kind seem like a nice guy. it's been a week since i know him. At first the connection was great b/w the both of us until he came over to my house. He had spent the night and the next morning asked me for $20 to get gas because he hadn't gotten paid from work. i was baffled, but i gave to him. i tried not to let that bother me, so i kept talking to him.

We havent yet gone on any dates, we 've been hanging out at his/my place. Yes, we 've had sex. he says he loves and want to marry me. I feel he is full of sh*t and i want to break it off with him but i'm confused. I dont feel the connection anymore with him, i guess the fact that he asked me for money the 5th day after we met and im paying for chinese food while im visiting him at his place, kinda turned me off.
what should i do?????????

 
posted by Sabrina (age 31) on 7/28/2009 @9:55:38 PM •
 
Break it off with him. It's obvious he doesn't want you for anything but sex. He may say he loves you but if hes not willing to take you out and you are having to use your money when you do something, he's just using you. Why don't you try telling him you would like to go some certain place and see if he is willing to take you (without using your money) When he ask you again for money tell him you don't have any and see how the situation changes. You will soon know if he loves you are using you.
 
posted by advisor on 7/30/2009
 
dump him. i think you deserve wayyy better than him. you need a man who is going to take care of you, not a man who needs to be taken care of. it's time to go.
 
posted by erica on 7/30/2009
 
Sabrina, To learn lesson we sometimes "pay" a tution. Consider this one of life's lessons. Dump him.
Money for gas...money for food..what's next money for his child support. Sex is jsut sex not love.He loves your money, you're good hearted and he will take advantage of that.

LOOSER-get rid of him, girl and don't open the avenue agian.
 
posted by Lu (age 10865) on 7/31/2009
 


 
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