relationship advice (post new situation)
"I need help before i break down "
My boyfriend and i have been together for two years, we were planning to get married at 19, and before this i broke up with him, and cheated on him which i regret completely. he was there for me in every step of the way, while i was having fun, he waited for me. I love him so much, but now he wants me to wait for him. He's never been with another girl and would like to have fun, date other people, because he's not ready for a relationship like i was. now it's his turn, i told him i'd wait for him, even if it takes a year, but it hurts. it hurts completely and just after a day he's going out with another girl. I said i would wait but i'm afraid that he'll leave me later on, and i can't stand it. I know he needs time and i'm giving it to him, but it hurts, he tells me to go out and have fun before we get together, but i can't. i don't want to. it hurts when i hear that he's with another girl, and i hate it because it's not me, and it hurts. i don't know what to do, i've already talk to him about this, i just don't know what to do, what can i do?
posted by Maria (age 18) on 3/17/2010 @9:07:44 PM •
Maria, all you can do is talk to him again, and hope he'll listen,and that you guys can come to terms. If he's ready to settle down again, that can be accomplished but only through honest communication. If you think you need to keep trying, try and try again. And then quit. Trying is all you can do. After that, if it doesnt turn out the way you want, it's time to let go and let things go from there.
posted by Joe (age 22) on 3/24/2010

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