relationship advice (post new situation)
"single forever"
I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I feel like guys are just not interested in having a relationship with me. Is there something wrong with me?

posted by Melissa on 1/17/2008 @1:03:14 AM •
most likely not, I am a 21 year old guy how has not had a sires relationship as of yet, and I am faerly sure I am a good and intresting person. It just hasn't happen YET, doesn't mean it wont.
and any way it is grately about confendace, if you work around think there must be something wrong with you other people will see it even if it isn't really there. my advice would be just concetrate on your friends and having a good time, once you are happy being you it should be long untill that spacile some one is happy being with you :)
bets of look
posted by sam on 1/17/2008
i'm sure there's nothing wrong with you! i was around 17 when i got my first boyfriend. i never thought about anything being wrong with me, but my bf at the time told me that guys were intimidated by me. i had no idea! then i found out that more than one other guy liked me, but were just too scared to ask. don't worry about it! guys are weird. there could be a million reasons, and probably every single reason would totally confuse you. it sure did me!
posted by me on 1/17/2008
well look dont even worry maybe you are much better then what they take you as, and i think you should just give it time and enjoy life dont try to presure you life with boyfriends now, have a lot of guy friends why not you will be the envey of girls, hey sometimes your heart has to wait for the right one our heart feels the pain that the person might give you so they scare them away you know. hope you get back at me love is just a word, but the touch of true love is in your heart. and feeling....
posted by la chola on 1/20/2008
When the time is right, you will find that special person. Remember, a watched pot never boils. It also depends on what type of person you are looking for. Find that person at a church or event. You will get noticed when you least expect it. Just brace up enjoy life & everyone is right, it's mostly about confidence. But, don't be overconfident. relax & be more social. Hang out at the places where you would like to meet that someone. That way, you'll have something of common ground & good luck.
posted by Marla on 1/31/2008
w3ll ur fin3 on ur own gurl u dont need a man but if u see some 1 u like make sure he is not taken but make sure u choose the right one
posted by leilani on 2/3/2008
NO, there is nothing wrong with you! I didn't get my first REAL boyfriend until I was nearly 17 years old. Trust me, you WILL meet someone one day that WILL want to have a relationship with you. Until then, have fun being single! It's a gift!
posted by anonymous on 2/7/2008

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