relationship advice (post new situation)
"Boyfriend help, please."
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year. We have had lots of hard times but we manage to stay together. Before we met, he used to be a big partier, but I'm really not into any of that so he stopped. I love him and I want to be with him, but over the course of our relationship he has done many things to make it hard for me to trust him. We almost broke up about a week ago but got back together and I'm so happy. Today, however, I got a "vibe" that something was up, so I checked his email to see what Facebook messages have been sent to him lately. I found many messages from over spring break (mid April) from girls, some kind of flirty, some just normal. But then I checked his Facebook, and they're not there. He's been messaging with girls and deleting it in case I see. I really can't be with someone who does that. I know people are going to say it's bad that I snooped, and yes it is. But I found something!! I was right! He's the one doing this to me. Prom is two weeks from now and I don't want that to be messed up, we already have tix and I have a dress. What do I do? If I confront him he'll just get pissed that I looked in his email and Facebook.

Please please give me advice.
posted by Em (age 16) on 5/9/2010 @9:00:48 AM •
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