relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"husband"
 
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT WE JUST GOT A LAPTOP ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO AND I CHECKED THE COMPUTER AND HE HAS BEEN LOOKING AT PORN I HATE IT !!!!! SO MUCH I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL LIKE HE'S CHEATING ON ME SOMEHOW AM I RIGHT OR JUST OVER DOING IT A LITTLE.
 
posted by KAREN (age 20) on 5/26/2010 @7:35:25 PM •
 
Talk to him about it. Tell him how much it bothers you.
 
posted by Dana on 5/28/2010
 
My husband did the same thing and there is nothing you can do that will change him. I tryed! If you catch him he will just be more secretive and become a better liar!! It feels like he is cheating in a way and that your not good enough but thats not the case. they are sick. They have an addiction. I would express how you feel about it, and you know the old saying if you cant beat them Join them. watch with him and that way you take away that thrill of doing it behind your back! I hope your situation doesn't end like mine did. I felt unloved and unappreciated so I found attention else where and now we are dealing with a much bigger issue!
 
posted by Jen (age 28) on 6/3/2010
 


 
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