relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"Is it me?"
 
I am in a relationship with a very beautiful lady. We have been dating for 5 years. We are both divorced. We have been recently living together, basically helping her fiancially. As soon as she came, along came the baggage. Moving in was her 21 year old with his 18 year old girlfriend and 2 dogs. Along with that, came her 23 year old (drunk and drug addict kid) staying with us 4 nights a week with who ever he is sleeping with, then invited was her 18 year son and his 17 year old girfriend spending the weekends with us. And of course none of them have a job much less money. So someone had to flip the bill for a ton of food. Guess who that was? To make a long story short, I elected to move away. Actually to another state about 1/2 hour from where I was at. Within 3 days, the 21 year old and his girlfriend came moving in without notice and within 5 days the 23 year old has been sleeping at our place 3 to 4 nights a week. We have only lived in the home for 2 months and I have had enough. I ready to throw everyone out including my girlfriend. So my question is, should I be understanding (again) or start pitching the freeloaders?
 
posted by brandon (age 53) on 11/29/2010 @4:50:52 PM •
 
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