relationship advice (post new situation)
"valentine's day dilemma"
Me and my bf have been together 6 months now, but I'm stuck on what to do about Valentine's day...

I don't mean to sound selfish, but as I'm with someone this Valentine's is gonna be very special for me. Mainly cos not only have I been single for all the other ones, but I've NEVER had a Valentine (no card, no guy, nothin) and I'm 20 now!

I love him and he loves me too (He said it 1st) so much it verges on icky lol :-D

He's quite unpredictable and we're both broke students. So I'm guessin he'll either do something sweet or not much and I want to do somethin but I don't want to go over-the-top or put in less effort...

I've not mentioned anything about it cos I don't want to put pressure on him, as he's been going through a lot. He's got no clue I've never had a Valentine!

PLEASE HELP! Much Appreciated :-)
posted by v day!! on 2/3/2008 @11:54:32 PM •
Well first of all.... I'd be honest with him. What kind of relationship do you expect to have if you can't be open and honest with one another. If you are wanting to go all out with him on this V-day let him know... He may very well be up for it. If not then he may be able to suggest something. Just because he's not mention any plans yet doesn't mean he hasn't got any. Im here if ya need me! Best of luck!!
posted by MistyDawn on 2/5/2008

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