relationship advice (post new situation)
"Breakup Advice"
Ok here it goes... I am 23 years old. My ex is almost 28. We met at a junior college and he is from Texas and I am from Cali. He lives at home with his mom. He does not have his life together. He has 2 duis...can't drive for another 5 months and works minimum wage jobs. He wants to go to culinary school in the fall..but who knows if he will do that. And we have been together for 4 years. Ok so anyways, he broke up with me a few weeks ago...and said he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore and that he doesn't see us working out in the future. I have been heartbroken ever since. He was my first serious boyfriend and I love him to pieces. I always had that feeling that this was real love..that we would last forever. I have texted him after he broke up with me..but now I am not going to contact him anymore at all..its been 5 days since I last talked to him. He told me that I need to move on when I asked him if he just needed time to realize he wants to be with me. I want him back..I don't want to jump back into a relationship again but maybe take it slow. He basically told me that his feelings changed. I just didnt see it coming...I dont know what to do. I am not going to talk to him but I just keep hoping and wishing he will text or call me soon... but for some reason I dont think he is going to. This is the worst feeling in the world. Do you think he will come back?
posted by Sarah (age 23) on 3/12/2011 @1:18:12 AM •
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