relationship advice (post new situation)
"how do i know"
So a guy I work with knows that I like him. we have been working together for 6 months now. 4 months ago he found out that I was attracted to him and I said that I would like to get to know him better. I suggested we hang out and he said that he would like to give it a try. it took about 2 weeks for him to decide to make a plan. in that 2 weeks though we strated talking, joking and just having fun together at work. he finally set a plan and then 3 days later he said came to work and was really quit and was acting kind of sad. that night he text me and said that he ddint want to get involved with anyone at work right now and that we weren't a right fit, I am 4 years older and a parent. for the next month things were really awkward between us and he went back and forth from treating me like crap to being nice. then one day things changed and we were right back to playing around and joking at work. that's when I started catching him staring at me all the time. the confusing part is that we text occasionally and sometimes he doesn't answer but he always apoligizes when we see each other and tells me the reason for not answering. also I will invite him to hang out in a group setting and he seems interested but then when the day comes he doesn't show. I don't know what to think, and normally I am good at reading people, but he is just all over the place. one minute I think he likes me then the next I'm really not sure. I don't want to forget about him if he does but I don't really want to sit around waiting for a guy who might not be
posted by me on 4/7/2011 @12:00:05 PM •
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