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"desperate"
 
Im a 27 year old girl and my fiance is 37. We've been together for a year and a half. My problem with him is that he has a staring problem...if were out on a romantic date and he sees an attractive girl he will keep glancing at her or even stare at times..I am a beautiful girl and he tells that so why does he have the need to stare?? im scared one day he might just give a girl the wrong impression when hes staring at her (when im not around ) and they might start talking and who knows what can happen from there...im at the point where i told him i will leave him if he doesnt stop. It just makes me feel very insecure and scared that he might cheat or something..
 
posted by Cristina on 6/29/2011 @1:49:10 PM •
 
If that's bothering you now, one of two things needs to happen - he stops or you leave. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship and MUST be there to be a successful marriage. And I don't blame you for hating that he does that. Unfortunately, stuff like that usually gets worse and, like you already know, can lead to lots of bad things. When you tell him to stop, what does he do? Does he get defensive or all lovey dovey like you're making a big deal out of something? Does he get a smug little smile, but deny it? Regardless, it has to stop...otherwise you'll regret it down the line.
 
posted by sara on 7/1/2011
 


 
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