relationship advice (post new situation)
"Dreaming of cheating"
To start off, my boyfriend and I have been together for four years now. We plan to marry and we have a beautiful daughter together. For the last couple months I've been thinking of another person. Don't get me wrong I love John with all my heart and I want to marry him but all of a sudden I think to myself that I'm too young and I never got to experience the single life. I'm starting to feel as though I'm tied to a chair and I've never felt this way. Even last night while I was sleeping a had a dream I was flirting with this particular guy, this guy that I'm starting to think about daily. I guess I would just call him my fantasy guy but he does excist in real life and has been in and out of John's life frequently since he is his best buddy. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. Help me please and how to control my feeling.
posted by Grace (age 19) on 11/16/2011 @5:33:46 AM •
I have been with my fiance` for almost 5 years now, and I am also 19 years old. I understand what you mean. Last year, I had some feelings that I was tied down. I knew I loved him, but he was working alot, and I met a guy who I found myself flirting with. I tried to keep myself away, but I was staying with my cousin, and this guy was his neighbor so it was hard to ignore him. I fell hard. I started thinking about things. One day, this other guy kissed me...and I kissed back. As soon as it was done, I kind of freaked out, realizing what I did. I was staying at my cousins another week, so I needed to control myself. I made sure that when I was with the other guy, I talked about how good my boyfriend treated me, and told stories about us, and then all of the sudden, I realized that what I had was something special that not alot of other people our age have: A stable relationship with a guy who loves me, and it was then that I realized we were really meant to be. So when you are around the other guy, and even when you aren't, think about your boyfriend, and how lucky you are to be 19, and have a stable relationship with a guy who loves you :) I hope this helped a little bit!
posted by Gina (age 19) on 12/9/2011

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