relationship advice (post new situation)
well, my parents looked through my text messages and saw my boyfriend (they know him though as just a friend) send me a dirty text saying "mmm **** your so tight" or something like that and there were too. and their response was "that is how low life people talk, it's ghetto language do you think that's normal? or appropriate?" and i just don't know what to do. i mean we're already dating secretly it's been two years, i want to marry him one day. but what should i do. my life's ruined. i'd do anything to change that they saw it. he doesn't disrespect me or anything its normal for a dirty text once and a while. and now my parents hate him even before they could know him as my boyfriend. what do i do? and how will i go to prom with him in a few months? how will i tell them we love eachother eventually. i'm indian and my parents are so strict. i just don't know what to do.
posted by Anonymous (age 15) on 11/22/2011 @3:44:21 PM •
Your boyfriend should undo the wrong by doing something right.
Tell him to text a number of intelligent mind provoking text messages. let him text you a feasible solution to some of the prevalent problems your parents and friends know about. Let him help with some of your class room work. That way he will win back the respect of your parents as you share these new text messages with them.
posted by Esther on 11/27/2011

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