relationship advice (post new situation)
"breaking up the right choice?"
I am going to give you the quick, but need to know details ....

me & my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years now (this may will make it our 3rd). We are very serious and I could possibly see being with him forever... However- A few months into our relationship I caught him messaging other girls, .. very clear flirty messages.I confronted him about them and he owned up to it, and told me he's sorry but he didn't think anything was wrong with just a message, because actual cheating is doing something sexual with another person. I told him how it makes me feel (not very good about myself) and hurts me. I promised to stop...
MOnths go by and everything seems fine, but I keep catching him messaging other girls and it really bothers me. He now gets mad at me for going thru his phone. I know it is wrong, but I am so hurt by his previous actions and fear he is doing it again, which proves correct. I do not know what to do. Should I break up with him? The only thing is I really do love and care for him. But I cannot deny that all of this has really affected me. I feel so low about myself and as much as I want to, and try to, i cannot trust him so easily. please someone respond and be nice.
posted by Marie on 1/16/2013 @5:52:14 AM •
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