other advice (post new situation)
 
 
"Lost but not forgotten"
 
Okay, I had a b/f who died almost two years ago. And it still kills me. He was my 1st love. I mean I am with someone else now but I still think about him alot. And here latly I have been having dreams, hearing all our old songs, and thinkin about him an what happend alot. I miss him soo bad, and idk.......
 
posted by Kc on 2/17/2008 @8:35:56 AM •
 
that's really, really sad. you've been through so much sad, awful stuff. i'm sorry... it's normal to think about somebody you lost. and it's normal to feel guilty about the new person you've found... this might sound dumb, but talking to a professional counselor type could really be helpful. one of their jobs is to help people through loss, and it might be comforting to know that people are experiencing exactly what you are, and finding good ways to deal...
 
posted by rick on 2/17/2008
 
yes u should maybe see a counsler and talk about ur greving with ur x boyfriend i kno its hard and depending on how long ago it was maybe right now it not the right time to have a boyfriend since ur mentally unstable and ur feeling like ur hurting him
 
posted by Lety on 2/21/2008
 
MY B/F DIED ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO TOO. aND I'M ALSO WITH SOMEONE ELSE, HAVE DREAMS AND HEAR THE SONGS THAT WERE OURS. THERE WILL NEVER BE A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT HIM! FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE! BUT HEY YOU GOT TO MOVE ON, HOW YOU DO THAT I DONT NO EXCEPT WAKE UP EVERY MORNING AND GO!
 
posted by myra on 2/21/2008
 
yeah. i realize death hurts sometimes but in the end it is just another part of life. i dont know who you are or who this person is but assuming he was a christian and if so then death is the best thing that could have happened to him. that's what's great about it. death is a new beginning. given that you are a follower of jesus christ.
 
posted by nathan (age 16) on 3/6/2008
 
you could go through a 100 more bfs, but you will always remember ur 1st, its hard, and if its gettin 2 u, then defo talk 2 ur partner, cuz every1 will always hold a flame 4 their 1st love
my bf lost his childhood sweetheart, she was ran over while they were playin 2geva at a young age, and every yr at dat time, hes reminded of her, it hurts him, but im there 2 help him deal wit it, so ur partner has 2 b there 4 u, however if u dont tell ur partner, he wont know what the problem is
only remeber the gd times, and the magical feelins u felt while u were wit him
 
posted by Emily on 3/14/2008
 


 
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