relationship advice (post new situation)
"Is it paranoia?"
So I have this friend (shes actually my cousin) and I'm pretty sure she is trying to break my boyfriend and I up so she can get with him. The reason I think this is because when im with him, she is always hanging around us trying to talk to him, but when its just me and I'm not with him, she doesn't even acknowledge that I'm there and acts like shes better then me and is just completely and otterly rude to me. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and when we first dating, they never talked what so ever. Then she'd talk to him a little and I didn't think anything of it. Then they started talking even more and more. I still didn't think anything of it. Then my boyfriend and I got to about eight months together. This is when she started to talk about him 24/7 and she would call him her best friend. Then she posted something on Facebook about her liking her best friend, but he's taken. She trys texting him, snapchating, any kind of way to talk to him, she does it. Fortunitaly for me, my boyfriend have enough respect for me not to reply back to the messages. Anyways, I would just like to know if I'm being paranoid or if something really is up. What do you guys think? If you think I'm over reacting, please tell me. If you think I'm right, then tell me what I should do and how do i tell her to back off. I could use all the help I can get. I really don't want this relationship to end. All comments are appreciated.
posted by Sarah (age 20) on 11/5/2013 @8:07:20 PM •
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