relationship advice (post new situation)
I am currently in a relationship with a guy who is just about 4 years older than me. It isnt an illegal relationship, there is no sex involved at all. And there wont be for a while because I am currently underaged. I am kind of worried though. He was in a relationship, and he accidentally got a girl pregnant. She lied to him and told him she lost the baby. 5 months later, he had a daughter. She is the sweetest thing ever, and her mother is a messed up person. She is into drugs and other things and barely sees her daughter. But me and this guy both really like each other..... A lot of people say "he is a no good person, don't bother with him".
He is a really nice guy around me. He promises me things and goes through with them. I haven't seen a single bad thing out of him yet. But I don't want to leave him and regret it... any suggestions?
posted by Brittney on 5/2/2014 @11:11:34 PM •
Hey Brittney,
This guy sounds like a keeper. BUT a baby is a big deal! If he's over age and your under than this relationship probably won't work. Sorry but that's the truth. Your gonna go to college and you two wont have any time together. If you like his daughter than you should encourage him to get sole custody on her. That means the bad mom is out of the picture. Which is probably for the best. Once the bad moms out than, he has nothing else in his way to you except for the kid. So i suggest that you and his daughter become really great friends, than she is all for your relationship. Hope my advice helped you.
XOXO Helpful Girl
posted by Helpful girl on 6/20/2014

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