family advice (post new situation)
"my Jr. Bridesmaid"
My niece is 8 almost 9 and by my wedding she will be 10. the reason Im bringing that up is to show that my niece can't always keep appointments for my wedding without the help of her mom or dad. So my sister in law has always forgotten about me and my plans with the girls(my nieces). My brother has always told me that he doesn't make the plans his wife does. Well she has already started forgetting about my plans for my wedding that is coming up in a year. I know traditionally the bridesmaids dresses aren't supposed to be picked right away but my color is discontinued so I wanted to get it taken care of right away. I know with her still growing that she might not fit into the dress next year but that was my point. If we can't find a dress in my color I want her to come now so we can figure out how to work around that. So my sister in law did it, she forgot about the appointment I had. I blew up. I don't want to have to keep fighting with her to keep appointments for my niece during this wedding. Things are already awkward, I don't know how to fix things and honestly I don't feel I should have to apologize first. Im angry and hurt I was wondering how should I proceed with our relationship, my wedding plans. I have always been close with my brother but I feel like I can't even talk to him now.
posted by Rachel (age 29) on 7/28/2014 @12:26:34 PM •
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