relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"sugar baby?"
 
Hi everyone.. I've been with my boyfriend now for about 2.5 years. We're in our early 20s and I just graduated college in May. I have about $50,000 in loans and am literally depressed thinking about how broke I will be when I start paying them back. I've joked around with my boyfriend about getting a sugar daddy, but he doesn't take me serious and I know he would never understand or accept it. I'm still considering it though... I love my boyfriend a lot, but financially, we're a mess. He wants to get a place together and everything but we can't even afford living separately and paying for cars! He doesn't have a lot of money, and we both work hard for the little bit that we have. A couple extra hundred a month would really make a HUGE difference and could potentially help me build a foundation with my boyfriend. WHAT DO I DO?! Please don't be rude. Thank you!
 
posted by Amber (age 22) on 7/19/2015 @11:08:27 PM •
 
I would not get the sugar daddy! It will just ruin your relationship because he will start not trusting you! Yes the money would be great but it can also ruin your lives! Look for a higher paying job or baby sit some kids. Babysitting is great money and its under the table and tell him you don't think you are ready to move in together, he should understand that
 
posted by Merissa (age 19) on 7/20/2015
 


 
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