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"Long distance relationships"
 
My boyfriend is 18 and is going to college in North Carolina and I'm not sure how i should deal with this. I've been in 2 long distance relationships and neither of them worked out but then again, I don't want to be the girlfriend that compares her past with her present. I'm just very confused. I don't want him to leave but on the other hand, I'm happy that hes trying to be something and do something with his life. PLEASE HELP ME!
 
posted by Antonasia (age 17) on 7/21/2015 @12:34:45 AM •
 
I know how hard long distance relationships are as im in one but just try to think of the positives, hes getting his life together and knows what he wants to do for the future that's great!
Just remember that you can always Skype him and message him im sure he wont mind.
Think of it this way, if you only get to see him once every while think about hoe special its going to feel when you are with him, its honestly the best feeling in the world but that's just my opinion, I hope I helped you at least a little bit :)
 
posted by Tayla on 7/22/2015
 
Hi Antonasia,
In this situation it all depends on how comfortable you are and how much you trust each other. You should sit down and have a talk with your boyfriend and see if you are both on the same page.Tell him that you have had two bad experiences with this and if he is going to be another one that you would rather end this now so you won't get hurt. Remember this is college and he will be experiencing new things so you need to make sure he really wants to be with you.
 
posted by Eli (age 17) on 8/4/2015
 


 
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