relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"Torn"
 
I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship this April. I had been with the guy for about a year, and it really took its toll on me. But surprisingly, this doesn't have to do with him. Shortly after, I started to this guy I liked in college. We never dated, he was more like a crush. But oh my, he's like my dream guy haha. We began talking every day and had such amazing chemistry. Beginning of June, we started spending as much time as we could together. I couldn't have been happier. The only downfall for awhile was that he lived kind of far from me, a little over an hour away. Mid July the distance started getting to me I guess. I began overthinking everything, having doubts, and being upset all the time. I couldn't shake the idea that he would do to me what my ex did. Maybe I rushed into things too quickly. But I became distant and pushed him away. I didn't mean to but I just couldn't act right. It's hard to explain. But now I am filled with so much regret. I had my dream guy and I pushed him away because of my insecurities when everything was fine. I think about him all the time and every day. Part of me wants to message him and just tell him I'm sorry. Maybe explain why a little bit. But I also don't want to look like a desperate fool. He won't talk to me anymore and won't acknowledge my presence even. But at the same time.. I feel like if I don't say anything I'll always regret it. What should I do? Say something or leave it alone? I miss him so much though.
 
posted by Brittany (age 24) on 9/19/2016 @1:19:30 PM •
 
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