relationship advice (post new situation)
okayy ive liked this one guy for a while now nd he knows i toldd him and i try to get closer to hmm but it seems like he pushed away.and i kno he likes me too bc he told his best friend and he kinda hinted it to me the other day on the phone.we have alot of fun when we are together and when we tlk on the phone we tlk for hours. i fill like he could be that one every little girl dreams about finding that right guy the one who protects her and holds her when shes sad.
but i just dont kno what to do.
posted by teela (age 16) on 3/4/2008 @9:37:17 AM •
Well best advice I can give is talk to him about it what will it hurt to just ask him and talk it out. He might just have shyness issues or show affection differently or not know how to show it at all. YOu can't decide anything until you know where he actually stands.
posted by Moses (age 18) on 3/6/2008
Well, you should just talk to him about it. You aren't gonna know unless you ask him. He may be the right guy for you or he may not, but you're never gonna know unless try. He may just be waiting for you to make the first move. Believe me most the guys I know like it when a girl shows she has confidence.
posted by Katie (age 16) on 3/6/2008
I've been in the SAME situation. I waited too long though so I def. advise you to talk it out with him. You'll regret it if you don't because you never know if he's "that guy" without taking the next step. If he is then GREAT... but either way find out where you BOTH stand and make sure its on the same page before anything goes any further. He might be a little shy, idk you know him better than I do, so you might have to take the FIRST step. Plus guys like a girl who knows what she wants. Whats the worst that could happen? But from what you've said he seems to be into you on more than a friend basis. But thats just me.

I wish you the best and I hope he wants the same things as you. GOOD LUCK!
posted by Ashlei (age 18) on 3/6/2008

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