relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"confused"
 
I've like this guy since my freshman year. now i'm a junior and me and him are finally "talking" he's liked me as long as i've liked him. i could always tell by the way he looked and acted around me. now that we are talking. he wont really open up and tell me things. i always half to ask and it usually leads to an argument. i really like this guy and plan on staying with him awhile. that is if he ever asks' me out.
its been almost 2 months and he still hasnt asked me to be his g/f. so is he shy or just dont know what to do or what. i mean i've known him 3 years..shew i'm so confused!!!!
 
posted by betty (age 17) on 3/6/2008 @4:48:30 PM •
 
It could easily be both. I've been in that situation, except I was the shy guy who didn't know what to do next.

The best thing to do is talk to him about how you feel, and ask him how he feels. Come on, what's the worst that could happen? Is so nervous and shy that he just starts drooling and doesn't know what to say....well alright, that's not probably not a good thing, but at least you know it's not you, and most likely him.

Anyways, I'm not sure what the argument part is, but I'm pretty sure it's just he's unsure how to express his own feelings, and if you try to dig too deep, you may just get on his nerves. It's nothing bad, we all have done it, or had it done to us. Just keep talking with him, and you'll be more than sure to eventually make progress with this guy.

And the fact it's been so long, maybe he himself is unsure whether he's ready for a relationship or not. So once again, you just got be a bit patient, and keep working at it. Love shouldn't be rushed.

Hope I helped.
 
posted by Jon the Mase (age 17) on 3/6/2008
 


 
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