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"wut da ****?"
 
c i like diss guy....and i get a feeling dat he likes me too but he has a girlfriend!!! sometimes i get really messed upp.... and when i said he flirts with me i mean really flirt.... also, today, he cursed me out on ma cell 4 some other reason dat i dk!!!! i didnt do any ****ing thing to him!!!! all i did was to get mad at him becuz he said dat i was goth!!!! im really confused and freaked..... plz any1 plz help meee
 
posted by chujngjin (age 11) on 3/6/2008 @6:18:31 PM •
 
boys are confusing sometimes. maybe you could just ask him... if he doesn't give you a straight answer, maybe you could just avoid him for a little while to let him cool off...
 
posted by jake on 3/6/2008
 
Hmm, well considering he has a girlfriend and is seriously flirting with you could probably be either he likes you also, or he's just a very friendly person. But the fact that he decided to curse you out for no good reason, besides the goth comment, maybe means he isn't that great of a guy, or was just having a stressful day.

Anyways, give him two or three days to cool down, and then go back and talk with him about it. I'm sure things will get better, or at least you'll have a better understanding of why he did what he did.

Either way, it always helps to talk with the guy about the situation. Better than to just assume something is wrong, or assume they think something, without asking.
 
posted by Jon the Mase (age 17) on 3/6/2008
 


 
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