relationship advice (post new situation)
"im in love"
Im in love with a beautiful women,but I can never seem to get the timing right to ask her out. Every time I am about to ask her out I find out that she has already been taken by these jerks, that get what they want from her and then cheat on her. I love her so much ,but I can't figure out what to do. I just want her to be happy.
posted by will (age 20) on 3/17/2008 @9:31:25 PM •
Though I can't say I was ever in your exact situation, I had a similar problem once. And now, reflecting back on that, I have come to create a very good solution, one which I wish I would have used back then.

Instead of waiting for the perfect timing, and hoping to get your chance, plan ahead. Instead of working on the upcoming weekend, when unsure what her plans are, plan for something a week or so in advance. Whether it'd be a new movie coming out, or some local bands you'd like to see, try and talk with her about it ahead of schedule.

And I totally understand what you mean when you wnat to see her happy, and not hurt by the rather, *ahem* jack asses *ahem*, who instead ask her out. But just plan ahead, and always know that what you want is only the best for her. But also know, if that want she thinks is best is just being friends with you, then be happy and respect that.
posted by Jon the Mase (age 17) on 3/19/2008
All you can really do is wait for the right moment. What is meant to be will be. Maybe one day she'll realize you're not a jerk like the other guys and will appreciate you sticking around.
posted by Ashley (age 25) on 3/21/2008

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