relationship advice (post new situation)
i am in love with this girl named tania, we have been on and off for around a yearish, i think...but couple weeks ago i asked her back out and she said yes and i was happy because i really thought this time i could be with her for awhile, but the next day she dumped me...she thinks ill just do the same thing and dump her, but i know i dont think i know, i could spend the rest of my life with her. I havnt talked to her for since she dumped me about the topic, ive just kind of **** -footed around it. i dunno if i should tell her or what.
posted by AJ (age 18) on 3/18/2008 @10:13:33 PM •
The thing is, is that if you asked her out, and then only after a day she dumped you, you really got to think if its worth it.

Don't get me wrong, because I'm sure she really is something special, but if she's dumping you out of the fear you'll dump her first, then she's not worth it. What you, and every guy/girl, needs is someone, who when fears the relationship is going to end, doesn't just break it off first for bragging rights. Instead, you want a girl who, instead of going for those bragging rights, talks with you about the situation and works to fix it.

So, to be honest, you have two options at your dispense. First, you can tell her about this whole 'dumping' ordeal, and hope you can fix things, or second you can end it now, remain friends, and find someone who is willing to be with you and work with you to keep a strong relationship.
posted by Jon the Mase (age 17) on 3/19/2008

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