relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"am i wrong???"
 
ok well im about to get married in aug.08 and i have a 5month old son the love of my life!!! well me and my boyfriend soon to be husband kinda have a problem well its me, im really jelious and he has girls from the past always talking to him and emailing him and sometimes calling out of the clear blue. i want to trust him but before we moved in with eachother he kinda messed around not sexually but cheating to me so its hard to believe him when he says that im the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with! i know he loves me but what if later on he gets tired of me always being jelious? hes a great dad and a loving boyfriend! so i know the problems me what do i do? help someone!!!
 
posted by ash~coe (age 19) on 3/28/2008 @9:54:14 PM •
 
First getting married young is popular now but it isn't good. 9 times outta 10 they get divorced. And first in order to trust him you have to trust yourself. You need to just relax and if you know him for that llong things should be okay
 
posted by Tiffany (age 18) on 3/29/2008
 
If he cheated once, he'll cheat again. It's the old saying of "Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater" If I was you, I would talk to him about the other women that he talks to, If he gets all defensive about the topic, and accuses you with Jealousy. Just Calmly explain that your not jealous just worried/concerned. But honestly If I was you I would wait a little while (like another year or so) Till you get married, Because If he decides to take off, it'll save you and your child a great deal of stress and court dates.
 
posted by Autumn (age 19) on 4/8/2008
 
this is a problme between my boy friend and i too but a little different my boyfriend is the jelious 1 and i get sick of it but if u truley love this guy u would be able to stop the jeliousey and move on and trust him and know ur the 1 for ever and always i hope every thing works out all right u have a nice wedding and dont be thrented by old friends if he wanted them dont u think that they would have him lol ~Norma~
 
posted by Norma (age 17) on 4/8/2008
 
You sweetie have a right to be jealous. He did cheat on you with another woman.. probably someone from his past I don't know.. but what I do know is if he still got females calling him and emailing him and texting him and everything i would get suspicious.

My advice postpone the wedding until all trust issues are resolved.. Otherwise your gonna have an unhappy marriage... And you want it to be the second best day of your life.. right next to the birth of your son. =]

And your not wrong to feel insecure.. He caused you to be that way. Trust your heart you can never go wrong.
 
posted by Jamie (age 21) on 4/8/2008
 
that saying is not allway true i would ask him to delet them and block there numbers and e mail address's he has you so no need for him to talk to them right...i would trust him if he says he loves you my boyfriend of 2 years has a friend he went to school i was jelious but i soon am not over it but i dont show it if you show you are jelious it will bother him and soon end you relationship my boyfriend lets me read all the e mails and listens to all the call that what your man should do i hope yall work everything out and be happy together
 
posted by patricia (age 20) on 4/8/2008
 


 
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