relationship advice (post new situation)
"single and it's getting me down"
hey, I'm 18 and I've been in two real relationships. They both turned out horrible and have left me a different person. I love my life right now, but I can't help feeling down because I don't have a girlfriend. I should be happy, I started a band, I think it could go somewhere, it's a lot of fun.. but when I come home at night, I think about how empty my life is. If only I could be coming home at night to talk to that special girl, you know?
I'm a testament to nice guy's finishing last and it gets me down. tell me some new way to think that will get me out of this funk? please?
posted by Jake (age 18) on 3/29/2008 @10:42:33 PM •
Dude, I know how you feel. I have been there and still am. Just hang tuff. Some thing that helped me, just try not to seem so interested in them. It sounds dumb but it will get you noticed.
posted by Joshua (age 20) on 3/30/2008
listen dude. i used to have the same sitiuation. but you just have to keep your ocnfidence up. if you walk around like you lonely thats the way you will stay. if you think your hot stuff then so will the ladies.
posted by daniel (age 24) on 3/30/2008
ok, i unerstand how ya feel i have been single for a while now and im 18 also, i get this feeling that someday i might get the chance to meet someone for me but everyone tells me that someday somewhere i will bump into that "mr. right" so i just keep that in my mind and think how special it will be when it finally happens. So just keep your head up and eyes open for that SOMEONE
posted by Samantha on 3/30/2008
I know exactly how you feel. I'm 19 and I haven't really been in a relationship and I have been thinking some of the same things myself. I know what it's like to be has some perks, but there are so many disadvantages. My friends tell me that the right guy will come along...if i stop looking...easier said than done right? I can't tell you how to stop feeling that way because I haven't figured it out myself...I think that my friend is right...everyone has someone that they are "meant to be with" i think we just have to wait it out as ridiculously long as it may take...but when the time comes it will definately be worth it.
posted by Chanda (age 19) on 3/31/2008
I don't know why everyone insists on believe that you need a partner in order to be happy. It's not the case. need to be happy with yourself first. You need to be happy and excited with your life...and be in a good place before you meet someone new and start a relationship. Get with it duuude. Grow up and stop thinkin bout gettin laid. Just kidding lol no, but gotta just be happy within yourself. And you're right, nice guys do finish last, but we need you...we need you to be there to pick up the pieces from the ****. You guys are the ones we end up with in the end so relaxxxx
posted by Michelle (age 18) on 4/1/2008
Well everyone has those times you know if you were in a great relationship all the time the Love of your Life wouldn't mean so much. I am two year older than you and i am still trying to find the one for me.
Just rember dont go looking for somone or the one your ment to be with may come knocking on your door and you wont be home..
posted by Michelle (age 20) on 4/7/2008

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