relationship advice (post new situation)
"Just friends??"
Ok so there is this girl that ive been friends with since my sophmore year, well now im a senior and shes a sophmore at college in town. I always had more of a friend idea towards her. recently we started talking alot more, she acts as if she wants a bf but told me she cant have a bf at this time. What am i to do?
posted by Kyle (age 18) on 3/30/2008 @1:43:48 PM •
remain friends with her if she feels the same way for you then im sure shell let you know when shes ready
posted by mirabella (age 23) on 3/31/2008
Let her go! she's in college and she's always just going to go back to you when things are going hard for her. She is just keeping you around to have a shoulder to cry on while she is off with other boys.
posted by JEnn (age 18) on 3/31/2008
Okay...I'll give it to you from my point of view. I had a best guy friend since freshman year in highschool. We were really close...I told him my deepest darkest secrets and fears. He was my heart. After being best friends for a few years...he told me he was in love with me. From then on, our relationship began to fail, miserably. I didn't veiw him as anything more than a friend, and I couldn't ever. It ruined our friendship. We don't even speak anymore. At all. So before you let her know how you feel...try and figure out where she stands. Because I would give anything to have him back in my life as my best friend again. And I'm sure you don't wanna lose what you have with her. If you think it's worth the risk, then go for it. It's all up to you...
posted by Michelle (age 18) on 4/1/2008
The Question you must ask yourself is she worht the wait????
posted by Michelle (age 20) on 4/7/2008

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