family advice (post new situation)
"Black Sheep."
I feel like the black sheep in my family.
Everything i do just doesn't seem to be good enough and ma parents change their mind all the time, one day i will be fine to them and another day i will act exactly the same and it's not good enough. im just not happy in my own home anymore. I've tried to stress my point to them so many times but every time i do it just turns into a big fight. please help.
posted by Louise (age 18) on 3/31/2008 @3:43:07 PM •
Lucky for you you are 18 and you can go out on your own. and never worry about what your parents have to say!
posted by Sammi (age 19) on 3/31/2008
hey there black sheep,have you talked to your parents about your feelings maybe they dont realize what they are making you feel the way they do. you need to let them know so maybe it could change.....a parents love is unconditional your parents will never stop loving you no matter what you do. remeber parents never realize what they are doin tell it is brought in there face.... good luck black sheep
posted by Meagan (age 20) on 3/31/2008
i kno the feeling
i am completely different than the rest of my family
my parents let me be myself when where we live
but when we are around the other family members they freak out about wat i wear
i hate it...they say they'll help me get something
but before they even give it a chance they shoot it down like they didn't even consider it.
my parents freak--&& i stress
i've learned to ignore it....i don't kno wat else to say
good luck!
posted by Annie (age 16) on 4/6/2008
i feel you. A good family relationship is a key in the happiness of life. you need to sit your parents down one on one and tell them every thing that is going on. make compermisines, and tell that that some boundries need to be expanded. tell them how you feel, and tell them before you sit down with them that you want to ahev a straightforward conversation and not to start a fight. tell them that you are trying your best, and you feel like its not good enough. see how that works
posted by sam on 5/7/2008

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