relationship advice (post new situation)
"One guy"
To start off i've been in tons of relationships.
8 relationships [not all at once], longest was nine month but I really didn't like the guy cause he treated me like crap....really badly. all the other relationships would last round bout a month.
My friend wanted me to go to church with her, so I did neither of us had been to this church before neither of us new anyone, first person I realized was this dude, camo pants, white shirt, bright orange hat, gorgeous red hair. Long story short we became good friends for about a month, I accidently got him into some stupid crap, that got him mad at me, but he'd quickly forgive me, we ended up dating, best guy in the world. treated me great, everyone was so happy for me, everytime my friends would see us together, one of them would pull me aside and say I wish a guy would look at me like that when i walk away. Everyone always told me, that everytime I wasn't near him, he'd look at me and smile...everytime I was near him, he'd always come behind me and just hold me, no matter who we where around parents, his friends, his family, other girls. girls he suprised lots of people. Another thing everyone always said everytime we looked at each other, they all could tell we reall liked each other.
We dated 3 months, best three months ever, he ended up leavin me due to some stuff, he was gone for a month, hardest thing ever he came back to me best thing ever but he ended up leavin again a week after we got back together it's been little over a month, I've never been this hurt over a guy, I always forget about a guy within the week, He won't talk to me, yet alone look at me, and it's killing me. I feel like anything he ever said was a lie. I feel like he fooled me and everyone else. I still find myself, randomly thinking about him, then end up hurting. I see his name everywhere even when I'm not thinking of him. Whenever i see him, my whole insides get butterflies but yet it hurts. I don't get it...What do I do? I want him back, I wanna talk to him but I don't know how to without looking stupid!
posted by Amber (age 17) on 4/7/2008 @8:54:43 AM •
so you still see him from time to time? next time you see him, work up all of your nerve and talk to him. don't let him be a jerk and do and feel what he wants. talk to him and see if there's something up or if he's just a jerk.
there's no guy out there worth feeling bad for yourself over.
I'm a guy, I think I'm a nice guy, but I'm not worth someone feeling bad over me. it's too terrible of a feeling.
posted by Jake (age 18) on 4/7/2008

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