relationship advice (post new situation)
"Is Now the Time?"
Ok. Here it is. I really like this guy in my class. He seems to talk to me and sometimes, even flirts with me. But, he also flirts with many other girls, too. I just don't know if he likes me or if he is just teasing me. Help?
posted by Penelope (age 15) on 4/11/2008 @8:12:37 PM •
Penelope, (great name by the way. go mom & dad!) i really do appreciate your problem, and i know a lot of girls your age have similar problems. and i have a question for you: how much do you want this guy's attention? a lot? then fight for it. if he flirts, flirt back. impress him. show him who you are and what's great about you. set yourself apart from the other girls and let them find their own boys. if he's got a lot of options, make his choice an obvious one. be confident - guys like confidence. well, smart guys lol. think about what you've got going for you - your personality, your skills, your awesome smile, whatever it is. how could he not pick someone so obviously pickable as you? it's all about state of mind. he'll see it if he's smart.
posted by Joe (age 20) on 4/11/2008

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