relationship advice (post new situation)
"there is someone else"
i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now, we live together and have an amazing relationship, i love him more than anything and we were meant for eachother. BUT i recently got a new job and met this man who i instantly had a connection with, like where the world stands still and you are in that moment. It has been completely unspoken between us until recently when we were looking eachother in the eyes and he asked if the world stopped with me too, i said yes. We both have tried to avoid eachother because he knows i have a long term boyfriend but lately i have been finding myself wondering "what if". I don't know if I am feeling this way because it is something "new" or if he really is "the one". I don't know if I should pursue this or just keep ignoring our feelings toward one another. i need help.
posted by abbey (age 25) on 5/4/2008 @1:27:12 PM •
If you love your current boyfriend "more than anything" then no other man should make you feel like "time stands still and you are in the moment". Thats how I feel... I sympathize with your dilemma, thats a tough one. But it really comes down to the fact that you must be able to give 1 man all your love, no if's, ands, or buts. You can't wonder "what if", if you're having that feeling at all then maybe you don't love your bf as much as you think. Maybe you are just comfortable with him because of the long relationship and it feels "normal", but it might not be true love. Good luck abbey!
posted by jason (age 24) on 5/6/2008

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