relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"so wrong"
 
so see.
I feel like a horrible person for this but i just cant help it.
I like one of my good friends boyfriend.
i cant help it.
Goshh i feel horrible about it.
HELP!
 
posted by Kim on 7/31/2008 @8:57:19 AM •
 
well; i know where you are coming from; i use to like one of my sisters boyfriends a long time ago; and i felt guilty because its like breaking trust; but... if you like him you like him... noone can tell you how you feel. just make sure that you don't do the wrong thing and get him to cheat; becuz you know you wouldnt want that done to you. and you know that you wouldn't want one of your friends having a crush on your "boyfriend" if you got one. so keep your head up high; its alright to like someone else's boyfriend; just dont touch them.
 
posted by Katherine (age 19) on 8/8/2008
 
OK. SO THIS HAPPENS TO EVERYONE. ONCE IN THEIR LIVES.... WHAT U DO IS DO NOT LET IT KNOWN THAT U LIKE UR FRIENDS BF.. THAT WILLL TOTALLY RUIN UR FRIENDSHIP.. THERE IS NO MAN IN THE WORLD WORTH LOOSING A FRIEND OVER. THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS IN THE WORLD TO MEET IT IS NOT WORTH IT.
 
posted by FELICIA (age 19) on 8/8/2008
 
Look Dont feel horrible, because its just going to make things wierd between you and your friend plus the boyfriend, Im not Shure about the whole situation, what i mean is is it a one way liking or is he liking you to, and why do you feel horrible for a crush? You cant help who you like thats life.
 
posted by Reign (age 18) on 8/8/2008
 
I WOULD FEEL BAD ABOUT IT TO IT'S PRETTY NORMAL TO HAVE FELLING'S FRO YOUR FRIENDS BOYFRIEND YOU ARE PROBLY AROUND HIM ALOT AND YOU SEE WHAT A GREAT PERSON HE IS AND HOW SWEET CUTE ALL THAT STUFF BUT BEST ADVICE IS KEEP IT TO YOUR SELF AND WHEN OR IF THEY BREAK UP GIVE IT ABOUT A WEEK ASK YOUR FRIEND IF IT OK OR JUST DO IT ANYWAY BUT I WOULD ASK MY FRIEND FIRST YOU DONT WONT TO LOSE A FRIENDSHIP THEN ASK HIM OUT
 
posted by patricia (age 20) on 8/8/2008
 
It happens to the best of us hon. After all, we are human. Just ignore it as best you can. It will pass eventually. Like every other crush. Good luck!!!
 
posted by kami (age 18) on 8/8/2008
 
What's the problem? You can like whoever you want. it's what you do about those feelings that may present a problem. Can you let it go? Does liking your friend's boyfriend prevent you from being able to hang out with them? How much of a problem is it? The answer may be just to keep your distance for a little bit and focus on some other part of your life. Let things run their course.
 
posted by Joe (age 20) on 8/8/2008
 


 
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