relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"PLZ SOMEONE HELP ME"
 
OK I HAVE THIS LIL PROBLEM


I HAVE THIS BOYFRIEND HIS NAME IS DEZMIN


IVE BEEN WITH HIM SINCE 5/15/08


MAD GIRLS BE CLAIMING HIM AND STUFF BUT I AINT WORRIED BOUT THAT RGHT NOW



THE THING I AM WORRIED BOUT RIGHT NOW IS


I THINK HE GOT ME PREGNUT


IM 18 YEARS OLD OUT OF HIGHSCHOOL HES 17 IN 11TH GRADE


HE TOLD ME THAT IF I DONT GET A ABORTION


HE'S NEVER GONNA TALK TO ME AGAIN


BUT HE DID SAY HE WAS GONNA TAKE CARE OF THE BABY


I DONT WANT TO GET THIS ABORTION


BUT I ALSO DONT WANT HIM TO STOP TALKIN TO ME


PLZ LET ME KNOW ON WHAT I SHOULD DO PLEASE


I WOULD APPRECIATE IT


THANK U
 
posted by AUDRIANA (age 18) on 9/10/2008 @9:36:16 AM •
 
if you want to keep the baby, keep it. if he can't handle it, then who needs him? im sorry to say this but this is what happens when people your age have sexual relationships. complications arise, and not surprisingly they are usually more than you can handle. if you need him to help take care of the baby, things can be done. legally i mean. but listen: he sounds like a dirtbag to me, and i wouldnt waste my time investing your emotions in someone who would abandon me like he threatened to.
 
posted by Joe (age 20) on 9/21/2008
 
Wow i was pregnant at 18 once to and all i can tell you is it's hard and even harder w/ out help from the other parent. I dont want to say abortion is the way to go because that is a decision only you can make and live with? But it sounds like he has made up his mind and he is very young and immature. Im so sorry but i think this is deff something you'll end up doing alone so maybe you should weigh out all your options. Good luck hun!
 
posted by kk (age 33) on 10/1/2008
 


 
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