relationship advice (post new situation)
"calling names"
my boyfriend of 7 years likes to call me names, both in public and private situations. Things like cheap and easy, and his "bag". He did it during a lunch with his friends that I had just met. He laughs like it is such a good joke each time he does it, but it hurts alot. I am getting tired. Any good advice is much needed. I am 38 years old and I know that I do not deserve this.
posted by Linda (age 38) on 9/18/2008 @7:31:55 AM •
Oh my goodness Linda! Sweetie, you do not deserve any of that bull sh*t. He's a jerk, I would tell him, hey this hurts and if he continues it he is so not worth your time. You are so much better than that f--king douche bag.
posted by Lizzie (age 23) on 9/18/2008
hey, Linda, to tell you the truth, he sounds like he is the cheap one....haahaa....i would talk to him in private about this and tell him how you feel. That's pretty low of him. If he chooses not to listen, the let him go... you'll get way more out of life if you have freedom
posted by Jessica (age 13) on 9/24/2008
TELL HIM!! He should understand your feelings. If the problem continues after you tell him, you should give him ONE more chance. Sadly...if he still continues... i think you should too. Break up. You deserve more.
posted by Kayla on 9/26/2008
talk to him about it.or do it back
posted by leann on 9/26/2008
Wow that is so not exceptable at all. He seems very immature and disrespectful. You need to talk to him and let him know how that makes you feel and let him no it isnt ok and if he does it any more you wont be around any longer. Dont sell yourself short sweetie you deserve better and there are plenty of men out there who will give you the respect you deserve!
posted by kk (age 33) on 10/1/2008

  [ disclaimer ] [ sign in ] [ contact us ] [ search ]
please take reasonable measures to protect your safety and privacy when posting situations or advice or participating in an exchange. read more... © word of advice, & powered by simplifyit. site map.