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"this is very complicated! please answer."
well I have been married for about 4 1/2 years now and three of those years I have been sharing it with his parents because we live with them wich is something I am not ok with anymore, but the problem is that we he's a student and should be graduating in 2 years. Now I am ready to move out regaurdless of our situation, cause I want a house a place to call my own not this super small bedroom that barely fits our king size bed, also I want a children, i have been rasing others children for the last nine years and I would like a chance to raise my own. On top of that we are starting to wear out our welcome but of course he isn't seeing it just me. everything is getting worse and well to be honest I know that he would never ever raise our children in this house so my question is what do I do, do I stay till the end? do I leave him now, and then when he's ready to move get back together? do I get pregnant so he will have to move us out? I don't know what to do but I do know that I love him very much and I know that eventually he will get his stuff together.
posted by diane (age 26) on 11/11/2008 @7:34:26 PM •
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