relationship advice (post new situation)
"In Love with Best Friend's Girl"
Dear Advice,

My friend got a new girlfriend about a month ago. At first I thought she hated me, later I realized she didn't. About a week ago I realized I was in love with her. I have never felt this way about any girl ever before. We have a lot in common, and I love spending time with her, I just hate when they become some what romantic around me. But I've been able to deal with it. I'm not sure what to do, try and wait out the relationship, or tell my best friend my feelings. Oh, and she has told him she loves him, but I don't think he feels the same about her. I'm lost, and can't stand to be away from her for a long period of time. I'm being deployed in the army in about 14 months, and I don't know if I could leave not letting her know how I feel, but I don't want to scare her.

posted by Mitch (age 17) on 2/4/2009 @4:18:37 PM •
Well as a (faithful)wife of 4 1/2 years, I would talk with her and see how she really feelings about your friend. But if she is in love with him, then you need to back off. You dont want them to break up b/c of your feelings for her.
posted by Sweetheart64 (age 26) on 2/4/2009

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