relationship advice (post new situation)
 
 
"rethinking my relationship"
 
My situlation is that I am engaged to this man I been with for almost 5 years. We have a two year old son. This man is a good man, but he has a temper, and can snap easily if I say the wrong thing or give a ****y look during a fight. Recently, we got in a fight becuase i was nagging about socks on the floor and threw one out the window, so he said he was going to throw out my entire porclein doll collection, so I blocked his away and I must of said something he didnt like and gave a ****y look so he grabbed by throat and I tried to push him off and got him with my nail, so he punch me in the face, that left a cut in my eyebrow, that now a scar. This isnt the first time, he has hit me, though each time is months apart or theres a bad period for a month or two and then it stops. He is a great guy otherwise and A great dad. I'm confused if I should leave now, I told him already that if he does it again, I will leave with our son, and he said he couldnt help it, that he snaps and hits me. What should i do? I really love him.

This gets even more crazy. I reasonally started causally talking to an ex that I was with when I was 16-18. I think I still have feeling for him, and I really want him to care for me still. Am I just projecting my insecurity into feeling for another man?

I'm so confused. I can't image living without my finace but I sometimes think of a life without him.
 
posted by Ruby (age 25) on 4/19/2009 @10:49:31 PM •
 
GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP HE'S ABUSIVE DO YOU WANT YOUR LITTLE BOY TO SEE THIS? HE'S NOT GOING TO STOP TRUST ME WHEN THEY GET TO THAT POINT IN ANGER THEY WON'T CHANGE!
 
posted by Simone (age 42) on 4/21/2009
 


 
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