relationship advice (post new situation)
"friends or more?"
I am falling in love with an amazing man. He is one of my good friends and we've known each other for almost 3 years. I think that we would make a great couple and want to pursue him. Unfortunately, he is currently in a relationship with someone but it is not a healthy relationship. She treats him horribly yet whenever he gets close to ending their relationship she wins him back. What is the best way to handle the situation? Should I just let it go and be his friend?
posted by dawn on 5/24/2009 @9:53:13 AM •
It's a hard situation however you don't want to give him your heart while his ex still holds his. I think you should be a great friend and stand by his side. When he realizes she is no good and his heart mends he will see that you have been there the whole time THEN you pursue him.
posted by Kristina on 5/26/2009

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